Check out the native gardens in my area, some look wild at first but then you see the patterns. They change with the seasons in a way a flat green lawn never does, which is its own kind of beauty. @jamie_price has a point, plenty of natives are lush, you just have to learn what that looks like beyond just grass. The debate often misses that a healthy, buzzing yard full of life has its own curb appeal, just a different one.
Funny how neighbors who hate the look at first often come around once they see the butterflies and birds. It’s like the yard becomes a little show that changes every month, and people get into it.